Why Living Together Isn’t the Same as Saying “I Do”

Rights of living together in South Africa

Living together is as common as a Sunday braai in South Africa. It feels like marriage, it looks like marriage, and you’re sharing everything from the grocery bill to the Netflix password. But here’s the reality check: the law doesn’t see your relationship the same way you do. Unlike a marriage certificate, “we’ve been together for a decade” doesn’t automatically give you a right to the house, the car, or a cent of maintenance if things go south or a partner passes away. To keep your future from becoming a messy legal headache, you need to know where you stand before the boxes are even unpacked.

Key Differences Between Cohabitation and Marriage

  • Legal Recognition: Marriage is a legally recognised union, while cohabitation is not. This means that married couples have specific rights and obligations under South African law.
  • Property Rights: Married couples have certain property rights, including the right to inherit from each other. Cohabiting partners do not have these automatic rights.
  • Maintenance: Married couples have a legal obligation to maintain each other. Cohabiting partners do not have this obligation.
  • Succession: Upon the death of a married partner, the surviving spouse has certain inheritance rights. Cohabiting partners do not have these rights.

Protecting Yourself

While cohabitation may not be legally recognised as a marriage, it’s still important to protect your rights and interests. Here are some steps you can take:

  • Enter into a Cohabitation Agreement: A cohabitation agreement is a legal document that outlines the rights and obligations of both parties. It can help protect your assets and financial interests in case the relationship ends.
  • Consider a Universal Partnership: If you and your partner have contributed to a joint venture, you may be able to establish a universal partnership. This can provide some legal protection for your property and financial interests.
  • Consult with a Lawyer: Seeking legal advice can help you understand your rights and options as a cohabiting partner.

Case Studies: Cohabitation Disputes in South Africa

Cohabitation disputes can be complex and emotionally charged. Here are a few real-life examples that illustrate the challenges and potential legal consequences:

Case 1: Property Division

  • Facts: A couple cohabited for 15 years, during which time they purchased a home together. The property was registered in the name of one partner. When the relationship ended, the other partner claimed a share of the property based on their contributions.
  • Outcome: The court considered each partner’s contributions, including financial contributions, household duties, and emotional support. They awarded a share of the property to the partner who was not the registered owner.

Case 2: Maintenance Claims

  • Facts: A couple cohabited for several years, during which time one partner supported the other financially. When the relationship ended, the financially dependent partner sought maintenance.
  • Outcome: The court considered the circumstances of the relationship, the financial needs of the dependent partner, and the ability of the other partner to pay. They awarded maintenance based on the specific circumstances of the case.

Case 3: Universal Partnership

  • Facts: A couple cohabited and operated a business together. They contributed equally to the business and shared profits. When the relationship ended, one partner claimed a share of the business assets.
  • Outcome: The court considered whether the couple had established a universal partnership. If they could prove the necessary elements (joint venture, contributions, and shared benefits), the court would award a share of the partnership assets to each partner.

Case 4: Child Custody and Support

  • Facts: A couple cohabited and had a child together. When the relationship ended, they disputed custody and child support arrangements.
  • Outcome: The court considered the best interests of the child and awarded custody and child support accordingly. While cohabitation does not automatically grant parental rights, the court may consider the couple’s relationship and the child’s best interests when making these decisions.

Key Takeaways

  • Cohabitation disputes can be complex and emotionally charged.
  • It’s essential to have a clear understanding of your rights and obligations as a cohabiting partner.
  • If you’re involved in a cohabitation dispute, seeking legal advice is crucial.

Remember, every case is unique, and the outcome can depend on various factors.

Don’t Let Legal Uncertainty Affect Your Relationship

While cohabitation may not have the same legal protections as marriage, it’s still a significant commitment. By understanding your rights and options, you can protect yourself and your partner.

Contact us today for expert legal advice on cohabitation agreements.

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